To love all means to love even our enemies and to love our family even when they feel like enemies. Loving those who hurt us and wound us is not natural, that's why pagans and tax collectors cannot do it. Loving our enemies takes supernatural love that comes from the holy Spirit's power flowing through us. Jesus promises us that as we follow him and grow as disciples, the holy Spirit will grow within us and give us the supernatural ability to love even our enemies. We can take a baby step in that direction by asking God for the desire to love our enemies.